Talk Before Sleep, by Elizabeth Berg

Talk Before Sleep by Elizabeth Berg
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

For those of us who love to read, there are a few books that we reread for a variety of reasons. Whether it's to learn more on a subject, reread a well-written book, or simply akin to revisiting an old friend, it's something we usually enjoy.

Talk Before Sleep, by Elizabeth Berg is one of my go-to books when I want something quick, yet satisfying. It was the first of Berg's books that I'd read, and probably my favorite, for several reasons.

Talk Before Sleep is the story of friendship, told from Ann's perspective. Ann and Ruth first meet at a party. Ann was immediately put off by Ruth's good looks; she soon discovers, though, that Ruth has an honesty that is even more breath-taking than her looks. The book follows their friendship, shifting back and forth through past and present. The present describes Ruth's coping with terminal breast cancer, and how the two women, along with a small group of friends cope with Ruth's ongoing health issue.

The book feels as comfortable as the flannel shirts that L.D. - one of Ruth's friends - wears, while showing how distressing the disease is to the group.

A review in Kirkus several years ago states that "Berg...offers a sappy tale about a woman witnessing the death of her friend..." (https://www.kirkusreviews.com/book-re...). While the book might be viewed as borderline-sappy, it came across more as telling about how friendships can help us through difficult times.

Talk Before Sleep is well worth reading, especially if looking for a quick, satisfying read.

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Talk Before Sleep, by Elizabeth Berg

Talk Before Sleep by Elizabeth Berg

My rating: 4 of 5 stars

For those of us who love to read, there are a few books that we reread for a variety of reasons. Whether it's to learn more on a subject, reread a well-written book, or simply akin to revisiting an old friend, it's something we usually enjoy.

Talk Before Sleep, by Elizabeth Berg is one of my go-to books when I want something quick, yet satisfying. It was the first of Berg's books that I'd read, and probably my favorite, for several reasons.

Talk Before Sleep is the story of friendship, told from Ann's perspective. Ann and Ruth first meet at a party. Ann was immediately put off by Ruth's good looks; she soon discovers, though, that Ruth has an honesty that is even more breath-taking than her looks. The book follows their friendship, shifting back and forth through past and present. The present describes Ruth's coping with terminal breast cancer, and how the two women, along with a small group of friends cope with Ruth's ongoing health issue.

The book feels as comfortable as the flannel shirts that L.D. - one of Ruth's friends - wears, while showing how distressing the disease is to the group.

A review in Kirkus several years ago states that "Berg...offers a sappy tale about a woman witnessing the death of her friend..." (https://www.kirkusreviews.com/book-re...). While the book might be viewed as borderline-sappy, it came across more as telling about how friendships can help us through difficult times.

Talk Before Sleep is well worth reading, especially if looking for a quick, satisfying read.

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The Art of Mending, by Elizabeth Berg

The Art of Mending by Elizabeth Berg
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

There are times when siblings growing up under the same roof experience very different family dynamics without realizing it until years later. That is the theme of The Art of Mending by Elizabeth Berg.

Every year, Laura Bartone and her siblings meet up at their parents' home in Minneapolis for their annual family reunion and the state fair. It's an event that is usually happy, until this year.

Upon her arrival, Laura realizes something is drastically wrong with her sister Caroline. Their brother, Steve, has trouble coming to terms with Caroline's changes, while Laura is, at least, willing to listen. The things that Caroline reveals about her past with their parents show a side of the family dynamics that rattle Laura to the core. As she tries coming to terms with her sister's truths, the siblings are thrown another curve when their father dies.

The siblings must come to terms with what they are learning; by the end of the book, Caroline's truths are proven true when their mother and aunt state how different things were for all three siblings.

The Art of Mending is written wonderfully, as is usual for books by Elizabeth Berg. This is worth the reader's time, especially if curious about family dynamics.

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Talk Before Sleep, by Elizabeth Berg

For those of us who love to read, there are a few books that we reread for a variety of reasons. Whether it's to learn more on a subject, reread a well-written book, or simply akin to revisiting an old friend, it's something we usually enjoy.

Talk Before Sleep, by Elizabeth Berg is one of my go-to books when I want something quick, yet satisfying. It was the first of Berg's books that I'd read, and probably my favorite, for several reasons.

Talk Before Sleep is the story of friendship, told from Ann's perspective. Ann and Ruth first meet at a party. Ann was immediately put off by Ruth's good looks; she soon discovers, though, that Ruth has an honesty that is even more breath-taking than her looks. The book follows their friendship, shifting back and forth through past and present. The present describes Ruth's coping with terminal breast cancer, and how the two women, along with a small group of friends cope with Ruth's ongoing health issue.

The book feels as comfortable as the flannel shirts that L.D. - one of Ruth's friends - wears, while showing how distressing the disease is to the group.

A review in Kirkus several years ago states that "Berg...offers a sappy tale about a woman witnessing the death of her friend..." (https://www.kirkusreviews.com/book-reviews/elizabeth-berg/talk-before-sleep/). While the book might be viewed as borderline-sappy, it came across more as telling about how friendships can help us through difficult times.

Talk Before Sleep is well worth reading, especially if looking for a quick, satisfying read.

The Art of Mending, by Elizabeth Berg

Some writers have a knack for telling a story that on its surface is just every-day life - visiting one's aging parents, taking one's children to the local county fair - but that, in reality, is startling in its life-changing honesty.

Elizabeth Berg has that knack. In her novel The Art of Mending, Berg tells of three siblings putting their lives temporarily on hold for their annual family reunion at their parents' home. The siblings' plans include going to the county fair being held while they are in town.

Laura Bartone, her husband, and children come to the family reunion hesitantly; Laura knows she will have to deal with her sister, Caroline, the family's black sheep, as well as their brother, Steve, who would rather not deal with whatever is bothering Caroline. But staying home and avoiding the reunion is not an option.

While visiting, their father is hospitalized for what is thought to be a short stay. It is while the siblings are in the waiting room, taking turns to see their father, that Caroline lets on that she has a secret that she needs to unload on Laura and Steve. The three meet outside of the hospital, without any extended family, to hear what Caroline has to say. The secret is explosive, causing Laura and Steve to question everything they remember from their childhood.

On top of the secret, the entire family must deal with the unexpected loss of their father.

Back at her own house, Laura questions the validity of Caroline's story. But when their mother comes to stay with Laura and her family, Laura goes digging for the truth. In the end, she learns from her mother that the secrets revealed were, indeed, true, and forgiveness and healing can begin.

Seemingly slowly meandering, this novel is actually fairly fast-paced and while the surface waters seem calm, the undercurrent is swift and truthful. This book is a must-read for both fans of Elizabeth Berg and for anyone who likes reading about the reality of family life.

Read more at https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/128289.The_Art_of_Mending.

Talk Before Sleep

I'm in the middle of rereading Elizabeth Berg's Talk Before Sleep. It was the first book by Berg that I'd read, years ago, purchased at what had been my favorite bookstore (Brigit Books in St. Petersburg, which has long since closed). Since then, I've reread it several times; it is probably my favorite of Berg's books that I've read to date.

Talk Before Sleep is the story of friendship, told from Ann's perspective. Ann and Ruth first met at a party. Ann was immediately put off by Ruth's good looks; she soon discovers, though, that Ruth has an honesty that is even more breath-taking than her looks. However, Ruth soon discovers she has breast cancer, which ends up spreading; by the end of the book, it has killed her.

There are no actual chapters throughout the book, instead leaving a gap between segments. The book dances back and forth between the past and the present. The present follows the story of Ruth's dying and death and how her group of friends - a group of women who are as different a $1,000 cashmere sweater and a comfortable t-shirt - reacts to her illness and death, as well as each other. Ruth's boss, Sarah, is the "kind of woman who can wear a perfectly tailored silk dress to take out the garbage and not spill a single thing on it...management material through and through," while L.D. "is a football-player-sized woman I've never seen in anything but checked flannel shirts and bib overalls..." Meanwhile, the flashbacks tell how Ann and Ruth met, their developing friendship, and what happens in their lives as they inch forward to the final illness.

While a review in Kirkus states that "Berg...offers a sappy tale about a woman witnessing the death of her friend..." (https://www.kirkusreviews.com/book-reviews/elizabeth-berg/talk-before-sleep/), and NYU School of Medicine's Literature, Arts, and Medicine Database states that "Unfortunately, like many books with much pathos, Talk Before Sleep often missteps into the territory of bathos...the book is mortally flawed in its two-dimensional portrayal of men..." (http://litmed.med.nyu.edu/Annotation?action=view&annid=1150), there are other sites that give the book positive reviews (http://www.storycirclebookreviews.org/reviews/talksleep.shtml , http://www.bookreporter.com/reviews/talk-before-sleep ). While the men in this book might not have been as three-dimensional as the women are, I felt that it was due more to the fact that the book dealt with women's friendships during profound illness than about rounding out characters that one only sees in the periphery.

Meanwhile, for those of us who have either experienced a medical scare ourselves or of friends and family members, this book rings true in its story.